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How many people have you kissed on the lips?

How many people have you kissed on the lips?

420dodrugs69

You know this ruined someone's day


anonymous_lurker19

This pool is anonymous. Also if it takes that little to ruin someone's day then that's on them


GP-NC

You guys get kisses?


lukmly013

I didn't even hug for almost 10 years and some dudes even kiss. Unbelievable.


COZYCARD

U guys get hugs? I don’t even get looked at by a girl


lukmly013

No. But girls do look at me, with disgust, but they do.


ireallylikeheralot

😍😍 There I looked at you with love 💕


Conscious1133

Go ask her out


Accomplished_Tutor19

Same here mate


ThunderingRimuru

the majority says no


KOALA_AE

Actually the majority says yes


BannedForATypo

The majority vsaid yes at least one -_-


goldfishfox

830/2098 votes said no, that's not the majority


Ukrainianwolf918

There is no majority. The word your looking for is "plurality" (most but still not being >50)


mchlpl1

I don't think you know what majority means


ThunderingRimuru

i do, i just forgot to add the rest


chuy_6711

It's reddit what do you expect


_StevenSeagull_

Including my two uncles? Two.


SSPMemeGuy

Lol this fucking poll really explains alot


Senko-fan4Life

Ever forget a LARGE portion of reddit is under 18


CompaBladi420

Average virginity loss is 17


balbok7721

Average reddit viginity loss is never


Senko-fan4Life

My trick was I became a redditor years after I lost my virginity


balbok7721

I believe I had just luck. We are not even talking ugly


redpandalover4821

Haha penis


Angush99

more like penSUS


Bakibenz

Average is usually an incorrect value to use. It is simple and intuitive, I understand. Use median or mean+SD


SuspiciousLambSauce

[Guess I’m above average 😎 ](https://www.reddit.com/r/dankvideos/comments/oqpy3t/remain_pure/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)


GermanShepherdAMA

It is overhyped.


SuspiciousLambSauce

It is. It’s almost like people perceive you as a loser if you don’t lose virginity early lol, it’s stupid


UppedSolution77

I believe it's younger than that? Not sure though vaguely remember seeing some statistics long ago


Imthebest66

A LARGE portion of people get their first kiss before 18


GermanShepherdAMA

Mine at 17 😎


helpmeffs191919

Bruh i was at 21+ by the age of 16 and honestly that’s quite normal after going to High School. People are being sexual before turning 18 man


braindeadmonkey2

You g people nowadays are socially inept


helpmeffs191919

But still? I have a friend for instance with social anxiety, and after High School he had still kissed about 4 girls in total. Another friend of mine that is also extremely awkward with girls and really short (170cm) that have kissed a bit more. Imo, if you’ve graduated HS or is in your twenties and kissed 0 girls (romantically), that’s weird af. I’ve never heard of a person IRL not have. PS: it’s only weird if it’s not by choice. I respect both of my female and male friends that want to stay kissless and virgins even tho we’re in their 20’s, because they Want to wait or simply dont want to. Respect. But, again, if you’re trying and not succeeding and you’re 18+, meh that’s weird man


PhilipKFry95

Surprised but the number of 0s


Linnci

Many young people here


BS_BlackScout

I'm 22.... Jesus christ


Kalamanga1337

...


iluvstephenhawking

Well not sex but a kiss? I think it's normal to have kissed someone by 12 or 13. I thought I was old when it happened. I had my first kiss at 15.


ThisIsHudson

This is Reddit, the fuck you trying to say?


goddess_steffi_graf

suicide fuel 👆


iluvstephenhawking

There's always time. Remember the 40 Year Old Virgin?


totezhi64

you didn't say anything unreasonable. the downvotes aren't justified.


plumlove101

Lol people are downvoting you simply bc they feel personally attacked


iluvstephenhawking

That wasn't my intention. Just my life experience. I'm a nerd just like everyone else here.


plumlove101

yeah I completely agree with you :)


Imthebest66

Lmao cope downvoters


MrMisterMan69

Dude samesies!


Weary_Swordfish_7105

My mom, my grandmother, my sister, my great grandfather….


merilum

italian?


Ryle28

Is he from Alabama?


thememefulone

No, Italy


IGotHitByAHockeypuck

Same (Netherlands)


dr-wahh

your sister? WTF why


star_wars_the_501st

That’s gross


CapTainNipSac

almost 24, never been in a relationship. I blame my past. My whole high school career was online and at home, never went to college, been "alone" in many ways for many years and most of my friends are online. I blame the way I was raised, locked in a closet for days sometimes as a child, i blame my culture, video games were my babysitter and my parents rarely talked to me or were busy, i felt alone most days. my addictions that held me back are of no more. Although, i am sincerely a much more complete and healed person now, i have had to get over some defecits once i entered the real world. You realize you only have so much time before you're not young anymore. It was painful, still is, i am forever recovering. I lost my youth to screens. the future is dripping one day at time. Salvation is socialization


DominateSunshine

A good friend was 25 and a virgin. My (f) and my gf took care of that for him. It was like a mental block. He now has a gf of over 2 years and is happy


AinSpaceXXX

How did that conversation go?


DominateSunshine

it helped that it was my BDSM friend group. Open and honest communication is a cornerstone of the friendships. I mean. I met him at his first bdsm party. He looked lonely and we ( about 8 people) offered to let him tag along. It was 6 months later for the deflowering.


LoLzGuyB8W

The first sentence alone has a whole different meaning if the second sentence didn't exist


BS_BlackScout

Almost 22. I don't blame screens, I blame the way I was grown up. Waay too shy and reserved and nobody bothered to break that on me. People just enabled me being like that. Horrible.


zack220011

This is literally me right now. Though college just started,so I have some time.


justanindypunk

I forget how young people on this sub are


SavagesceptileWWE

That's just reddit in general


PM_BEANS_

Yeah that's so weird. 🤔


Impossiblewrath

I thought Redditors where virgins


GP-NC

Redditors can lie


ThunderingRimuru

and a first kiss isnt virginity loss


The_Wonderful_Pie

*random slice of life anime starts to play*


Krocsyldiphithic

I'm starting to think this sub is the worst possible representation of the general public possible. I understand that certain subs will have a majority of 12 year old nerds, but why a sub for polls?


Brokengirl96

I’m almost 25 and can confidently say 0. I’ve never been in a relationship do never had the chance to kiss anyone.


Pooinurpants

Most people having 0:


Squidward759

Kiss? What is that?


SavagesceptileWWE

Line your head up perfectly with someone else's, then headbutt them straight on. That should do it.


Youmustneverask

It freaks me out now that I've had sex with more women than I've kissed.


ThrowRA16253

Go kiss a few people and don’t have sex then you’ll even your numbers out


Youmustneverask

Like I didn't already know that, need to stop random hook ups and need to find love.


Red_Matter1

unsure why you're being downvoted. love beats hookups every day


HelloFutureQ2

Depends what you’re looking for, but yeah hookup culture is highly overrated


Youmustneverask

Yuss


Nothing_Rhymed

Do you not kiss during sex or how did you manage that?


Youmustneverask

I just fuck strangers but somehow don't kiss them.


throooooooowawayyyy1

I feel like sex wouldn’t be good without kissing


Youmustneverask

You're right sir, not as good you don't form the connection.


tkTheKingofKings

For the 21+: why and how


Arsewhistle

I'm about to turn 33, that's plenty of time for kisses


tkTheKingofKings

Fair


K4l3b2k13

I spent my 20's on a Greek party island. At the time i didn't see a future for myself, so I was living only in the now, and was in an extremely carefree and self destructive phase, craving excitement, risk, and the endorfins which accompany sexual promiscuity, another 0 on the end of the 21 would likely be accurate. (Not quite as many full sexual partners, but far more than i should have) Certainly regret a few, but mostly enjoyed connecting with a wide variety of people. Objectively, my behaviour/reputation certainly cost me opportunity with certain people i actually cared about at the time, and I hurt others whom I should have been more considerate of...sleeping with best friends/sisters etc, drama and hurt created for the sake of my own satisfaction. (Not talking about cheating here, was single and engaging multiple partners). Thankfully, someone rescued me from that loop, we found love, and are happily married in a monogomus relationship. I wonder sometimes if I'd change anything about my past, but always end up back at the realisation I wouldn't have my wonderful wife if I did.


HornyPlatypus420

Parties. I also prefer just going to them rather than waiting for them to come.


AndrewS702

Your name is also Horny Platypus so there’s that.


HornyPlatypus420

That's a good point as well haha


ThePherdBeve

How do you make out at a party?


tkTheKingofKings

I don't go to parties often (covid y'know) I also prefer not just going to them and don't want them to come to me. But to each their own I guess


airborneisdead

College and tinder


dudeAleeDoo

There's adults on Reddit too...


groovydoll

I didn’t think that was very high?


Virtual_Zombie

Grindr


tkTheKingofKings

Makes sense


cogollento

31 years old, maybe just the time and experiences...i don't know...


plumlove101

I enjoyed my high school making out at any given opportunity. I'm very surprised by the low number of people that did the same as me. But then I remember, it's Reddit.


g000r

30+ and gay


mnlxyz

Partied a fuck load. At some parties I made out with multiple people in one night so it adds up fast


93johhny

It’s called having game lol


mrsir_21

I seriously wish I had a explanation, all I can say is Being in college will make it easier man.


humannotafan

Because I’m 25. Started kissing at 18, so 7 years is plenty of time to kiss/hookup with 21+ people. That’s only 3 a year.


PioneerStandard

I kissed at least 20 different girls by the time I was twenty, not to mention family and all the women after that. I was chasing women until I hit my 30's.


CalendarDue5855

They’re old


commander_seb

I had a LOT of girls through my school years. I'm not even done.


CharlieChickenBear

One person, when I was eight an eleven year old trapped me in the bathroom and forced me to kiss him, not letting me leave until I did


plumlove101

That's fucked up, I'm sorry. You don't need to count it if you don't want to. I have lived similar situations and I ignore them, I just count consensual ones.


CharlieChickenBear

Thank you.. I'm sorry for whatever has happened to you <3


zoop1000

Some people haven't even been kissed by their mom dad or grandparents? I don't enjoy it, but they've definitely got me on the lips before.


BS_BlackScout

I don't count that...


Hestekraft

As a young child maybe, but we didn't really kiss eachother on the lips. Counting kisses on the cheek it's pretty much my entire family and then some.


PioneerStandard

I guess I've been whoring around all my life.


yougoddangfool

reddit moment


SavagesceptileWWE

Once when I was 14 I met a girl in art class, she had to leave for her parents job and we started dating for a week before she left during her going away party. 17 now and don't give a flying fuck about relationships. Probably good I only had one for a week cause that's way too much work.


arcticbuzz

I'm 23 and only kissed 2 girls before passionately (one ex and one fling). I've had really quick pecks on the lips with prob 3 other people too but those were all when we were drunk and as a joke.


night_owl37

Omg so many young people on here!


Knify_dio

why must you hurt me this way


quietkidfrom6thgrade

Reddito momento


FuriousFernando

TIL I'm a hoe


PapaCream22

Reddit moment


Ahw3b

Reddit moment


Background-Belt-2202

Y’all Redditors need to get out of your comfort zone once in a while.


more9898

I was a man whore in my teen years so probably more than 40. Never had an STD and that's a miracle


ShowTheBeaver

Damn reddit is depressing


helpmeffs191919

Seriously


DrPhilSwift69

0 and I’m 15. That normal?


Mumbawobz

I didn’t have my first kiss until 18 I’m 27 now and don’t even know the full number but it’s sure as hell a fair amount more than 21. Relationships/romance/initiating physical contact gets a lot easier once you know what you’re doing.


BS_BlackScout

I'm 22, yes. 0 too haha


realityhurts34211

Does family count?


ZwaggyMcDaddy

Uhhh am I the weird one for never having to kissed my family on the lips??


Hestekraft

I can't remember having been kissed on the lips by family, probably when I was a infant/very young but not that I can remember.


Mayfinder

No, it’s weird as fuck to kiss your family members on the lips. Like, why? Cheek i get but even when i was a kid i thought it was creepy and gross to kiss family on the lips.


TwoFacedTomcat

People who put "21+" "My goals are beyond your understanding!"


helpmeffs191919

Honestly man, i dont get why there aren’t more. I’ve friends that aren’t that good looking, who have easily kissed 21+ after high School. If you’re avg looking ish, not too awkward/introverted, funny and have a nice personality, then it should be no problem


TheCoin1

The thing is being awkward, introverted and very unfunny


EddySmith19

once when i was 6


cosmic_owl__

Y'all never played truth or dare as a kid/teen? When girls get obsessed with boys (or the other way round) they dare you to kiss anyone on the lips


wtfishappeningdear

Lmao. The number of 0's. Reddit moment


ignacio_12345

Im going to be honest I voted 1 because my Grandma used to kiss me on my lips when I was like 3-6 years old


84lele

The fact that 0 is the highest explains so much about Reddit.


Beloni_BR

Obligatory "Reddit moment" comment


mp701

Thats shocking, wow


MoistMinotaur

Reddit moment


ilovetightjailbaits_

I haven’t kissed a girl yet and it makes me want to kill myself


apxgameboy

Bro, it’s not that big of a deal.


ThunderingRimuru

emotional support is a big deal though


burgerpizzacoke

Ypu all literally user "virgin" or "never touched a women" as insults, you want that guy to think it's not that big of a deal? Lol, fucking trash as fuck people.


soesist

Ikr? I mean, I'm not a virgin, but I was until fairly recently, and nearly everybody who tells you "it's no big deal" has never struggled socially and can't even comprehend what it's like to be utterly alone. That said, I don't really feel any different now, maybe I would if I was actually in love with the person I lost my virginity to though.


YesImDavid

Don’t think that much into it, the right one will come along trust and believe me when I say that. Ignore people who try to say it’s a big deal because it’s really not you’re not missing out on anything of value…


Destroy_Hungayry

Reddit


wsco7730

You either haven't kissed... Kissed a few people... Or went hard and kissed everyone. No body's in the high ground, only extremely, average, or none.


Des_demona

21+ got the herps


Old-Shirt8639

Lmao no


helpmeffs191919

…Or just aren’t socially awkward, and went to high School and university and had fun meanwhile?


Euletrico

Expected from Reddit.


Exile4444

Probably my mom at like 5 does that count?


MaskerPlayz

0, probably will always be 0 because I’m a fucking socially awkward loser


PragmaticPortland

I think the majority of people who are at 0/1 are teenagers. I'm in my late 20s and I can't imagine someone not having kissed 21+ people by my age if they have a semi-active social life.


ThrowRA16253

I agree that 0-1 are probably teenagers, but 21+ seems like a lot to me as someone in their early 20s. Guess I’m just missing out 🤷🏽‍♀️


PragmaticPortland

I think you're par for the course. My twenties really picked up for me as they went on in terms of dating, exploring, and kissing strangers so I wouldn't worry too much about it!


helpmeffs191919

Agreed! That’s so weird. Unless you’re the relationship type of person ofc. But i’m 20yo now and have slept with 21+, kissed? Fucking god knows man


DominateSunshine

21 is so low. No slut shaming allowed.


ThrowRA16253

What? How is this slut shaming?


DominateSunshine

That 21 is the high number. Why not 50 or 100? I've kissed way more people then that.


HandLion

Uh, yeah, but as evidenced by this poll, most people haven't, so you're the outlier. Not saying it's a bad thing at all, but you have kissed far more people than most


DominateSunshine

Probably an age thing. I'm in my 40s.


helpmeffs191919

Nope. 20yo male here and i’m at least at 50+ and probably way closer to 100. It’s just reddit….


Lower-Ad-4253

Then just choose 21+


ThrowRA16253

Okay good for you. This poll covers all possible numbers. You do realize that “21+” means 21 and anything above that, right?


jaboa120

Family doesn't count


JTMilleriswortha1st

2


JTMilleriswortha1st

2


Damafio

I've kissed 2 people once on separate occasions. The first I only know because of eye witness accounts.


Queen-Keane

Idk


BluPeps

That explains a lot considering we're redittors.


Muntent-fat-rat

I dont like kissing on the lips


Mynameisaarav

You are on reddit mr


FalloutFan05

Not including family 0 w/ family 2-3


Tter0r0r

Parents and relatives be like


LatviaBest

my mom and my grandma when i was really small.


Lonely_Dino_

My best Friend whenever we went to the swimming pool. There were stairs that went into the water and we went under those and kissed. We were 8-10 XD


thatuglydudeoverhere

did your guy's parents never kiss you on the lips when you were young before?


helpmeffs191919

Tbh i think OP meant in a sexual/romantic way.


helpmeffs191919

Wow, i think i was on 21+ by the age of 16, and tbh i think that’s quite normal… either people here are really young or idk


I_LOVE_PIZZA_MUAHAHA

In a part of the minority lol


ockv

ew


Shiroifukuro_

Uuh....


I_dont_like_sand__

Come on, you're in Reddit what did you expect